Do you know....

The fear of the unknown is excitement enough to make you plunge face first into what ever that darkness holds... What you get or get into may not be what you expect but the satisfaction of knowing what it is, is part of the calculation and evaluation you did before you made the decision... "LOVE" is the most common darkness we dive into, but being that it is the most common its the least we know about... Real love can't be defined or described we just know it's an euphoria and hell all in one box... But the "hell" we feel is created by ill saturated feelings and doubts... Every situation has it's own finger prints down to the one's who choose it.. So although these are calculated risks and a lot of us approach them no matter the reason, we all know that there is room for disappointment and failure... How we routinely approach things and and let them change our outlooks and mannerisms is not apart of of the calculation we made when we chose to explore the unknown.... So in turn, do we really choose to make these decisions or do we already know that some of them will fail making it not so much an "unknown" but pure ignorance and naiveness to what has been explored by others and informed to you? Or do we still approach it as "unknown" because one's outcome isn't the same as another turning off the "knowledgeable" light and making it darkness again? These are the only cases where "ignorance" is actually bliss... I think anyway....

There is no "I" in we....

"I worked to hard for you to mess this up" said the selfish man.... Selfishness never goes away, we always factor "I" in an equation before "we" come to an agreement or a decision.... But I honestly feel that if you show someone how selfless you are before you see how selfless they are willing to be, then you will be put at an emotional disadvantage... Of course what you feel and think will be bias to the situation, but it's when you really mature that you understand and know how to view and act with the notion and complete regard for other(s) feelings and thoughts.... Nothing earned is worth it unless it's shared and appreciated by someone other than "yourself".... Selfishness is the key to getting to success but selflessness is the key to maintaining it... So this begs the question, are you you willing to share? 

What's on your mind?

It starts as a simple hello, no real stimulation is involved except for the obvious physical attraction that sparked the non-physical ecstasy the minds involved are about to embark on... A common ground is found, and the intellectual "genitals" are shown... Impressed, one can't help themselves but to invite in and taunt the others attributes... Eye contact replaces kissing and is in all actuality more sensual and doesn't "lead to other things"... Past stories replace touching and foreplay and gives the warm sensation of reminiscing and the advertisement of stimulation shown by goosebumps... Future plans replace intercourse using all the same wants and goals as a pace setter and stroke motion, making the mind connection intensify... Ending the conversation with the intentions of continuing the relationship replaces the "orgasm" using this passionate endeavour you two just traveled to as a catalyst reach satisfaction... So the question is do you believe in mind sex? Or is it A myth?

Is that what it really is?

Tears, loss of appetite, lack of energy, feelings of "I quit" .... Though these are all things that are not desirable we all wish we can live them... Real pain is a feeling that we all low key strive for so that we can build ourselves to be a head strong, tried and tested individual.... It's something that although we all try to deny, we like or love the fact that we can feel sooo low and down that there's nothing left to do but progress.. We seemingly want to feel so broken and hurt that we let ourselves be torn, and we submit to situations that we know will become some of the most painful and self degrading actions ever committed. And yet we still let it go on as if we're oblivious and don't have a care that what's going on isn't apart of the grand scheme to disappoint.... When it all concludes we act like it's new and we didn't expect it to happen and catastrophically effect our lives in the way it does.... So the question is do we make ourselves fools for love or is that how it's actually supposed go?

Cliche...

The grass is always greener on the other side... That's only true if You've been on that side to see if it is for yourself... The strength of genuine emotions are irrefutable and can't be hidden, they run every action you make(relationship wise)... "if it's too good to be true it probably is"... If it is actually attainable then being too good to be true is nothing but a submission to being afraid of happiness.. Love without pain isn't real love and it won't last.. Our imperfections are what makes us strive to make the impossible achievable... Clichè's and superstitions are created or told to give a reason for one to doubt what he feels or wants to achieve... Every thing, situation, and relationship thrives from what you make of it... An opinion, statistic, or anything that isn't for the progress of what you want to achieve should be irrelevant... So how do you feel about "cliche's"? Do they serve the sole purpose to discourage? Are we bred to have doubts in ourselves?