Wednesday, August 4, 2010
Comfortable...
They met a while back and the unspoken unsigned agreement was made called friendship.... Back then it was puppy love that wasn't acted upon because knowledge of the foundation that is being laid is neglected, due to the blindness created by age... A little time passes the bond deepens and the realization of "Like" is introduced and things escalate to levels that they didn't think or know were possible... So now they really have a connection because they both have something that is valuable to each other(hearts).... They grow apart go in different ways and lose track of each other due to space, people, time, or situations that one gets in... More time passes and memories grow less thought of and feelings seemingly disappear into thin air.... But just like seasons that same love comes back around... And like clock work things are mended, apologies accepted and feeling are given new life... They feel stronger about each other now because they're in a comfort zone that gives them the ability to trust faster, be more sexual, make things official and disregard the "dating" code... Things go rotten and arguments become the majority of the relationship they jumped in, and they start being absent to each other mentally and physically which brings accusations and more arguments and a harsh environment... Now they are cold to each other and nothing is left but to break up and cut all ties.. They do and time passes... Then they do it all over again as if the first time didn't happen... SMH.... So now insecurities are created, walls are built, and mazes are made for ones who want in on they're lives outside of the one who helped build them... So the question is do we want to be comfortable at the expense of being happy? Or do we do what our (emotional)heart says do rather than gathering all the facts and using that solution as the map to "our" happiness?
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There's love, and then there's commitment to a relationship. I've been committed to everyone I've ever been in a relationship with. That's not the hard part. I've only been in love with one person. The hard part is knowing that for me nothing will ever compare. Even when someone is at their best it doesn't compare to the one you love at their worst. Being comfortable, for me is having the one I love in my life, even if it's just as friends and goes against the perimeter of the relationship I'm in. Anything else is just life, reality, a means to an end, a lonely substitution for what I really dream about, or the person I really see when I close my eyes. Love is real and it stays with you until death. Everything else is just expected and routine.
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