Wednesday, August 18, 2010
Let it go... Please?
Instantaneous defense mechanisms built by past catastrophe's that skewer the mind into believing that every future relationship and situation will be a horrific encore... Walls are put in place and ensure that previous pain can't get in and bring back the intense emotions that cause "life" doubts... No one can understand what it takes to get to that point so talking and expressing it won't help the thought process that you maintain from day to day... Time passes and you become stronger and you're able to hide your "real" feelings and you pretend to feel and show someone that you are whole heartedly "THEIRS" while you know that you aren't fully vested because you have walls that you built to keep yourself out of harms way... Now you face a dilemma because falsifying love documents is just as painful and violating as cheating, so how do you go about explaining that you have manipulated the other party involved into falling for someone who you're portraying to be and not who you really are... Heartbreak... We all know that it's always easier said than done, but is scaring someone else emotionally worth still pampering the one's you haven't yet let go? Is it fair to others for you to hold on to the past? Is it selfish to feel like we all should "GET OVER IT"? Think on that.... =^/
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It's not fair to others if we still hold on to that past. It's not logical and it's not something I think we ever "get over". But life's NOT FAIR, and it's full of all the moments that make us and shape us. I think what we are remembering are all the moments that made that past relationship unique and special, and nothing compares because we are always trying to fit everything into that first box. If we simply embrace the new moments for what they are, smile more, laugh more, accept the good more, then we don't have to let go, we can just move forward. We forget that dates are mini celebrations of the moments we are CREATING. Make every moment you spend with someone else about them and the holes that are left by our old love, left unoccupied, will slowly begin to fill.
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