He never told me I was beautiful so I don't feel that I am and "self" esteem is non-existent. I never feel pretty or have confidence because "he" wouldn't assure me that I was pleasant to his eyes.
She never said "I want you to tell me that I'm beautiful" so I never to the initiative to express it that often, or even at all. She never "does" anything to make me feel as if I need to express those type of thoughts or feelings.
He used to be a cheater and though he doesn't give me reasons or commit suspicious behavior the things I know about your past won't let me be completely trusting in him.
Her insecurities make me wanna stray, I know how I used be but the past has zero to do with our future and I do everything in my power to show her that I'm a changed man...
He doesn't like my friends because they're all single and rarely have anything positive to say in regards to my relationship or him and when they come around an argument almost always follows my encounters and rendezvous' with them. I feel like I can't drop my friends even though they make my relationship with him hard to maintain.
She doesn't understand that I hate having to compete for her. Her "single" friends don't care about the well being of me and her, I know they try and convince her to stray thus giving me certain insecurities that cause me to feel compelled to start arguments and accuse her of things I know "may" not be true.
There is always of two sides to a story and always rights and wrongs. But what do you consider a bad recipe for a healthy relationship? Do you do things that are detrimental to what you are trying to build with your significant other or do you blame them for what's going wrong?
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Without trust there is no relationship. A bad recipe is letting ANYONE come between you and your significant other. Also I think it's worth the effort to make yourself seen in a good light with a woman's friends if they are in fact important to her. Guys don't understand that when you hurt your woman you also put a strain on the other relationships in her life (i.e. family and friends) Trust goes beyond you and her it trickles down to the other people that share counsel in her life. It's important to respect the other relationships in her life if you want them to respect her relationship with you. Girlfriends like mamas never forget the wrongs of the past, and usually don't let her forget them either. They are usually left to pick up the pieces of her broken heart. I almost wanna say that if you need to apologize to her you almost need to apologize to her friends and family as well. You don't need to be buddy buddy with the chicks (especially alone) but try to see the good in them, and maybe they should do the same. It's also a good idea for the woman to keep trouble in the relationship to herself until she makes final decisions.
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